Thursday, February 26, 2009
SHOULD i BREAK UP WiTH MY BOYFRiEND?? HELP MiSS "K."
OMG MY LiFE RiGHT NOW iS SO SCARY AND iTS ALL BECAUSE iN FOUR MONTHS i'LL BE GRADUATiNG AND THEN iN 1 MONTH iN A HALF i'LL BE LEAViN FOR SCHOOL.... iN FLORiDA AND ONE OF MY BiGGEST iSSUES RiGHT NOW iS LEAViNG ALL MY LOVED ONES BEHiND BUT i KNOW i MUST FOR THE BEST. i AM JUST LOST FOR WORDS ON ONE SiTUATiON THOUGH, SHOULD i BREAK UP WiTH MY BOYFRiEND NOW TO GET OVER THE STRESS OR LATER TO MAKE iT EVEN WORST?? i LOVE BRADLEY WiTH ALL MY HEART AND i TRULY SEE MYSELF WiTH HiM FOREVER i'M NOT CRAZY i'M SO SURREAL RiGHT NOW! i JUST NEED SOME ADViCE ON THE SiTUATiON PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE??
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To be honest i dont think you should break up with him but i think you two should take a break. Long distant relationships require alot of commitment.... im not sayin that you dont have commitment but it might be difficult for you to express how feeling from so far away. While your in college you might meet somebody new n u mite start to catch feelins 4 other people or vice versa w/ him. I kno graduation is rite around the corner, i cant even think about it. I thinkk ya should take a break n jus be friends n c if dat works.
ReplyDeleteIf you love him, then all this will work out. It is inevitable, unless your pessimistic. If you are I do not know what to tell you. Even though your still going to Florida, that is months away, and you should not compromise your relationship at the moment. Especailly if you are basing it on a event that will happen months from now. You love him, so live in the moment, because right now all we have is moments. These are crucial for Seniors, and seniors who are in the same dileema as you are. Thrive in the seconds and days you have with him. When the time comes four months from now make your decision.
ReplyDeleteI think that for right now you should live for the moment and live your life like it is the last day. Because if do it now you might regret it, defintely when you see him hanging out with people and wishing that you two still could be together. But before you go to college you should take a break from him because in college there might be others boys that you are going to get interested in. He is still going to be at home and while your gone you will never know what he will do when girls start throwing themselves at him. So just to be safe take a break and then decide what you guys want to do afterwards.
ReplyDeleteI think that you should talk with your man in order you know to figure things out. But if you love him you should stay with him and try it out then if it doesn't work then let him know but if you know that your gonna meet knew people and be into the guys in the school then you should break up because then it would make it worse. In any case i think the best thing to do is follow your gut instinct and run with it.
ReplyDeleteAh, the elder wants her voice heard as well, although at the end of the day, you will do what suits you- as you should. In short, you will not be the same person you are today in a few years. The next four years will alter your perceptions of the world. That you deeply care for this individual is not the issue, but by cleaving to him after you head off to college will only handicap your life. Let the transition happen naturally. If you enjoy each other now, do so and when the time comes to coin a cliche move on, say goodbye with the intention that perhaps as you both grow, you will rediscover the new yous.
ReplyDeleteAlso--how about a reply to the third prompt? I'm interested in seeing where in the world you wish to be.